I get asked on the regular why I’m not on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or any other social media platform. I usually just respond with some short response that terminates that rabbit hole of an explanation right then and there. What am I saving these people that ask from? This, this shit right here;
Reason number 1 why I don’t do social media; Public image. Yeah, it sounds silly, but I tend to do dumb things. I really don’t need these things showing up at inopportune times. I especially don’t want to have to explain to my son why there is a traffic cone on my head in that picture, and that’s on the tame side of things. I am 2 very different people on the internet, there is my troll gamer self that will set his Steam display name to something like Rectal Bleeding for the lulz, and there is my professional self, answering questions on IT forums and posting reviews etc. It is incredibly rare that these two operate under the same name, or in the same place. Here is an exception, since I will probably never reveal my name here.
Reason number 2 why I don’t do social media; I want more fulfilling relationships with people. I don’t want to know about the amazing meal friend 1 had last week. When I see them next I want them to tell me about it. I want to be able to go to a social gathering and I hear from them what they have been up to since I saw them last. People tend to interject at this point that they keep in touch with family that aren’t local to them through the platform, the counter-point is to ask if their phone can still make phone calls.
Reason number 3 why I don’t do social media; No more stress. It’s downright silly how much effort people put in to keeping up with everything that is going on in the world. I don’t think I put enough emphasis on this; It’s downright silly how much effort people put in to keeping up with everything going on in the world. That’ll have to do. I’ve had to point out to people that the internet will still be there tomorrow, or in a couple hours. You don’t get anything other than a hollow accomplishment for being up-to-date on your feed. In my opinion it’s better to concentrate your attention on things that will be more rewarding in the long run.
Reason number 4 why I don’t do social media; Tin foil hats! Yeah, I’m one of those people that believes that most social media platforms have roots in surveillance. Could be government, could be corporations, could be that weird guy down the street that doesn’t go out during the day. Either way, I don’t want to broadcast my life to them in an easy to consume manner.
Number 5; If I am the product, I am going to chose which store I am in. “If a service is free, you are the product” Over the majority of the past decade profitability through ad-revenue has gone from supplemental income to a legitimate business model. As a firm believer in voting with my wallet or controlling where money goes, I tend to not support companies that I just plain don’t like. This is why I tend to not go to WalMart. Most social media platforms are free to the user because they get their revenue from advertisements, or someone that wants the data (see reason #4). So, since I am going to be the product, I am going to chose where I am featured.
Personally I think that social media is responsible for a substantial amount of mental health issues in the world. The culture is that people must read all their notifications to make sure they are up to date with all their friends and make sure they know everything that’s going on with their Aunt Tina in Kentucky even though all she posts is pictures of her McDonald’s Lunch daily.
Of course, I should address the elephant in the room here; I’m posting on a blog, which is in essence a form of social media. Yep. There’s a counter-point to everything I listed above. Pretty much it all boils down to; While it may look like there is a target to my writing, I am doing this more for myself than anything else.